Can't tell you how many guys I've had work for me who felt that way and guess what? They are long gone (quit-not fired), and the company is still growing. Pretty amazing how that works out, isn't it?
Very few are indispensable...including me, but what's funny is the more indispensable guys really are, the less 'special' they act. What I have come to realize is that guys with that "I'm really good" pov don't take that 'better' offer, that 'better' option, they just 'threaten' with it.
For me, it's always..."if that's a better offer for you, why don't you take it? If you're not going to take it, why mention it?" And it's a pity if the company allows itself to be held hostage like that.
There are plenty of guys out there as good or better than you, me and everyone else....get over yourself :wink:
I've been here for over 20 years. You just don't want the company thinking that they own you. I jump through hoops for them. I get things done that others pass up and say cannot be done. They can jump through a hoop for me every once in a while.
I AM NOT the only one qualified to do what I do, so they can get by without me for a week while spend some time with my wife and kids. Like I said, I put in an average of 72 hrs per week. Sometimes more, but hardly ever less. I've put in 112 hours a week before. Sometimes I travel for weeks at a time for them. I do what they ask me to do and more. I loose more family time than I really want too.
After 20 years they think that there is no way I am going anywhere else ,and like I said, sometimes they need to be reminded, that isn't necessarily true!
I don't hold the company hostage. I don't make demands and threaten to leave. I have never asked for a raise. Matter of fact, I have never asked for anything. All the perks that I have, have been given to me without me asking.
I don't threaten them with the job offers that I get, they will just come up in normal conversation in sort of a joking way. But you should see the nervousness in their eyes upon mention of them. I know they value me. If I didn't make them money, I wouldn't be here. Business is business.